What is the best way to contact you?
The most reliable way to reach me is via email. If you need to reach me quickly and we have already met, then please feel free to txt me at any time between 9am and 8pm. I do screen all of my calls, and typically will not answer if I do not recognize your number. I do not ever accept blocked calls.
I left a voicemail, but never got a call back.
If I miss your message, I'll text back if I see your message was left within about the past hour. If not, I'll reply via email whenever possible so as not to inadvertently cause an issue with your privacy. If we haven't yet met and I don't call you back, please send me an email, or fill out my contact form. I screen all of my calls, and typically don't chat on the phone until after we've gone over the details. If you have an accessibility issue with the phone or email, please let me know and I'll do my best to accommodate.
I sent an email, but you never answered.
Chances are, your email must have gotten caught in my spam folder. Please try sending me another message, but take the time to introduce yourself - sometimes, email filters will "spam" messages with only a single line of text.
Please note that I do not respond to messages that are explicit, rude, or asking for "specials".
Contact
How can I reach you immediately?
If we've already met, you're always welcome to text me any time between 9am-9pm. Please note that I am not always available to reply immediately, but if you are looking for a same-day appointment please let me know what time you're available in your text message and I will reply as soon as I am able. If I'm not able to reply within your window of availability, I will reply via email.
For gentlemen I haven't yet had the pleasure to meet, please email me and I will respond ASAP, typically within the hour.
When we meet, I prefer cash for the remainder of my fee. I do not accept credit cards. I do accept Venmo or CashApp if you need a cashless payment option, but I do ask that this is sent in full at least 4 hours in advance and I do add a 5% convenience fee. Please get in touch for specifics.
When subscribing to my website membership, I accept Venmo, Cashapp, or for an additional fee I also accept Amazon gift cards or Bitcoin as more discreet options. Please get in touch for more info.
Payment Methods
When are you available?
I am available to answer messages between 9am and 8pm, and for appointments between 10am and 8pm, Monday through Saturday. For my complete schedule, please refer to my schedule page. I am happy to make arrangements to accommodate you outside my normal availability with at least 24hrs notice; please note an additional deposit will be required.
How much notice do you need?
I am available for same day appointments on a selective basis, but for new friends it's helpful to contact me at least a few days in advance to make arrangements. If we've already met, please get in touch! I will usually be able to accommodate your same day requests, with at least 2 hours notice.
Can you visit my home or hotel room?
I am happy to visit your home or hotel! I do charge an additional fee for visits to you, which varies depending on how far I need to travel and at what time of day. Please note I do require a deposit for Uber, and that I will not visit your home if you have roommates, live-in partners or guests who will be home when you want to meet me. I am not available to visit an office or place of employment.
How do I reserve a specific time?
If your availability is limited and you need to meet at a specific time, please let me know in your initial email and I will do my best to accommodate. If I can't accommodate, I will offer you some alternatives. I am generally quite flexible when given more than 24hrs notice.
Can I make a same day appointment?
I can't always accommodate last minute appointments, but I do my best! If we've met before, please send me a text message with your time window and I'll reply as soon as I can. If you're a new friend, please email me and I'll do my best to work around your schedule.
Availability
Schedule Changes
I need to reschedule. Is this a problem?
Life has an uncanny way of getting in the way when least expected. If something comes up and you can't make it to your prebooked appointment, please text me immediately to let me know. Please note that canceling or missing your appointment will void your deposit. I may, at my discretion, transfer your deposit to an immediately rescheduled appointment if you are giving me more than 24hrs notice.
I missed my appointment. Can I reschedule?
If you missed your appointment without calling or emailing me in advance to let me know that you couldn't make it, I will be unavailable to discuss the possibility of rescheduling until 100% of the rate for the missed appointment has been paid in full. In addition, I will also require a 50% deposit on any further appointments. I will not reschedule a missed engagement when travel is involved.
When is a deposit necessary?
I require a deposit for all appointments. I may require a larger deposit to schedule a new appointment if your initial appointment is canceled with less than 24 hours notice. If you miss an appointment completely and do not call to let me know you can't make it, I will require payment for the missed appointment in full, and will require a 50% deposit on any new bookings. I do appreciate that sometimes life gets in the way and I am quite understanding when you keep me informed about what is happening.